Kc Davis

There are only three possible explanations for your husband’s behavior. I wrote a whole book on the nuances of when to stay or leave and this is one that can be very clearcut.

Early clinicians took these observations and made the erroneous conclusion that BPD is a mild form of psychosis or is some sort of pre-psychosis, snd we know today that isnt true. BPD is its own distinct condition, but the observations about individuals with BPD sometimes experiencing a break from reality is still true. Many clinicians today believe BPD is a form of CPTSD. BPD is often described as the most painful psychiatric condition. Its a form of complex PTSD that alters the way your brain interacts not only with your emotions but oftentimes with reality itself.

The effect santa fe has on older white women needs to be studied.

How often it happens isnt the only important bit. None of these categories tell you whether she is doing it because she’s struggling or has trauma or if she’s just a horrible person. In the end, *why* she does it isn’t the only or even most important factor.

Replying to @Hailey 🍉 please don’t armchair diagnose the woman in question in the comments. Leave her alone. I just want to use the situation as a good example to answer this question.

Since school supply lists are trending again

Needless to say it was not his jam

Replying to @🌞🌞🌞 I’m not saying that every instance of infidelity is nuanced. Your personal situation may have been black-and-white. I’m saying at a high level, as a therapist, it is a nuanced topic.

You gotta throw some verbal bows if you want in.

Replying to @himyheadhurts ok walk with me on this…

Im just a girl leave me alone.

Don’t get me started on how some of yall think committing someone involuntarily is easy to do.

I forget not everything is an epic lol

I’m not dipping my head in a bowl or finger curling get outta here with that. I might as well straighten it every day for the amount of work that is

I get what they’re trying to say but some of these “horrible” before pictures are literally just women postpartum with no makeup on, or looking like any woman might when they are comfortable enough to not look perfect 24/7. I dont think the trend is wrong or anything its just that taken all together it feels weirdly like a woman’s sparkle always equates to being more conventionally attractive.

#stitch with @❣️🧶🐛 fun fact

Replying to @meonz this is exactly what I’m talking about. I agree that reclaiming life again after a horrible relationship affects the way you take care of yourself, but the amount of fatphobia and propaganda the beauty industry uses to convince you that being thin and conventionally attractive is a marker of being healed is pervasive.

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Ive writered too close to the sun I fear

This type of behavior is so normalized and it is so toxic. It chips away at self worth.